It struck me during Tough Mudder that monkey bars are a good metaphor for life. In order to move forward, we have to let go.
I observed several people who were too scared of letting go and falling that they weren’t willing to let go when the time was right. Their fears were realized as they fell to the pit of muddy water below. Had they held on only just enough and let go at the right time, they might have made it across. In order to move forward, we have to let go.
Here is a powerful decision-making tool from Derek Sivers:
“No more yes. It’s either Hell Yeah! Or no.”
I urge you to try this. If you’re not jumping up and down inside with excitement about an opportunity, the answer is no.
This was scary when I first tried it, but I have had remarkable results so far. I ended up saying no to a lot of things, and I was worried that I had overdone it. I couldn’t have been more wrong. Of course, many things are not exciting in the short term. For these things, I’ve found it helpful to focus more on the end result when asking yourself the above question.
What it’s called doesn’t matter. Minimalism, essentialism, simplicity or enoughism. It’s the idea that more is not better. It’s the concept of limiting the extraneous, focusing on what’s truly important. Doing less, but doing it really well and having more fun. Having less, but having high-quality things that are actually used.
This blog is home to my writings about minimalism. Do I consider myself a minimalist? There is really no set definition, so it’s hard to say. What I do know is that life seems better when I do just enough things and have just enough stuff. It leaves time and space for awesomeness.